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For Christians, coming together to mourn a loss, give thanks for a life, and proclaim the hope of resurrection is at the heart of our faith. These moments of worship remind us that even in grief, love endures and God’s presence is near.

At First Church Milford, our pastors and community are here to offer both compassion and the strength of tradition as you begin the journey of grief. We consider it a sacred honor to walk alongside families in planning services that bring comfort and celebrate the life of your loved one.

If you are considering a funeral or memorial service, we encourage you to reach out to us early in your planning. This allows us to work with you to choose a time that fits both your needs and the church’s schedule, so that the service can be crafted with care.

Below you will find some of the ways First Church Milford can help you honor and remember your loved one.

Hosting a Service

At First Church Milford, we are honored to walk with families during times of loss. Our building offers two beautiful spaces for services: the historic Sanctuary/Meetinghouse, which seats up to 400 people, and a more intimate Chapel, which seats about 50 and is available on Saturdays or evenings.

When you hold a service here, one of our pastors will meet with you to listen, guide, and help shape a service that honors your loved one with care and dignity. Our Music Minister is available to provide meaningful music on the organ or piano, and together we can create a service that reflects both faith and family.

Behind the scenes, our Office Administrator, Nicole Moore, is here to answer your questions and help with details such as printed bulletins, if desired. Nicole can also walk you through the fee schedule and logistics, so you can focus on what matters most — remembering and celebrating the life of your loved one.

Hosting a Reception

Many families choose to continue the time of remembrance by gathering after the service for a meal or reception. Our Fellowship Hall offers a warm, welcoming space for this, seating about 70 people at tables or accommodating 90–100 standing. Families typically provide catered food, and our funeral reception coordinator will be there to help arrange the space and support the flow of the event. Additional fees apply, but we do everything we can to make this gathering a time of comfort, connection, and shared memory.

Pastors Officiating at a Funeral Home

Our pastors, Revs. Adam Eckhart and Ashley Grant, bring more than forty years of combined experience in leading meaningful services of remembrance. They are often invited to conduct services at local funeral homes such as Doyle-Smith or Cody-White here in Milford. Whether in our sanctuary or at a funeral home, they offer compassionate leadership that honors the life of your loved one and brings hope and comfort to family and friends.

Graveside Services

Some families prefer a graveside service as a simple, intimate way to say goodbye. Our pastors are available to lead these services at the cemetery, either as a stand-alone gathering or as a continuation following a memorial service. Whether brief or extended, these moments are held with dignity and care, recognizing both grief and gratitude in the presence of God.

Memorial Garden

First Church Milford’s Memorial Garden offers a peaceful and sacred place for remembrance. Nestled in the shadow of our Woodruff Chapel, this garden is set aside for memorials, the scattering of ashes, and quiet visits with loved ones who have passed. It is tended with devotion by our Memorials Committee and is available to members, past members, and their families. Above all, it is a place of beauty and reverence, where memories are honored and love endures.

Next Steps for Families

To speak with a minister regarding any of the above services, contact us through the church office at 203.877.4277.

To help you with pre-funeral planning and to understand common funeral and memorial service terms, you can download the forms below: