First Church Adopts Open and Affirming Covenant

June 9, 2019 - First Church Milford held a special congregational meeting following our Pentecost worship service where we overwhelmingly adopted the Open and Affirming Covenant as presented by the Church Board. Below is an overview of the Open and Affirming process at First Church


The "formal" Open and Affirming (ONA) process at First Church began in early 2017 as an "ONA Core Team" formed by the Diaconate in response to an earlier congregational survey. The team used a Building an Inclusive Church Toolkit and other resources to prepare for the discernment process.


In March, the Church Board voted to expand the core team into an "official" sub-committee of the Board. This Open and Affirming Sub-Committee was commissioned to facilitate the discernment process whereby the Congregation would decide whether First Church should covenant to become an officially Open and Affirming congregation in the United Church of Christ.

The ONA Sub-Committee held a number of discernment workshops and one-on-one sharing sessions, as well as a transgender remembrance service and reported to the Church Board on a regular basis.


In January and February, Rev. Adam facilitated a moving six-part bible study "How Far Does God's Love Go?" which was attended by 36 members of the congregation. Total bible study attendance across six sessions was 125.

At the February Church Board meeting the ONA Sub-Committee reported that over 90 people had participated in the discernment process thus far and that their reactions were overwhelmingly positive. Total attendance across all ONA sessions was 208.  The Sub-Committee also informed the Board they would soon begin crafting an Open and Affirming Covenant using responses from the bible study and other ONA sessions.

In April a "covenant team" was formed, made up of six members of the ONA Sub-Committee working together with the Church Board's two Members at Large. They had a total five crafting sessions while gathering confidential feedback from a number of other members of the congregation. The resulting ONA Covenant was sent to the Church Board.

On April 25, the Church Board voted unanimously to endorse the Open and Affirming Covenant. They also voted to call a Special Meeting of the Congregation on Pentecost, June 9, for the purpose of voting on whether to adopt the Covenant and become an official Open and Affirming Congregation in the United Church of Christ.

In May and June the ONA Sub-Committee held three additional Sharing Sessions, so that members of the congregation could ask questions about the Covenant and continue to share their joys and concerns about the possibility of becoming an official Open and Affirming Congregation.

On June 9, 2019 the Congregation held a Special Meeting following its Pentecost worship service where they overwhelmingly adopted the Open and Affirming Covenant as presented by the Church Board. The vote was 84 in favor, 1 opposed, 1 abstention.

Open and Affirming Covenant

We the First United Church of Christ, Congregational, in Milford, Connecticut believe all people are created in God’s own image, infinite in diversity, and one in the body of Christ.  God bestows full humanity to all people, and all are uniquely and completely loved by God.  No matter who you are, or where you are on life’s journey, you are welcome here.

We declare ourselves to be an Open and Affirming Congregation, welcoming and affirming people of any age, cognitive or physical ability, culture, ethnicity, family structure, gender, gender identity or expression, marital status, nationality, race, sexual orientation, socio-economic standing, or spiritual tradition — no exceptions, no exclusions.

We covenant, one with another, to extend an extravagant welcome to all to participate fully in the life of our church — its worship, sacraments and blessings, its leadership, stewardship and fellowship, its mission and its ministries.

We promise to follow in the ways of our Lord, Jesus Christ, who said to us, “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another just as I have loved you” (John 13:34).

We commit, through this covenant, to help end ignorance, fear, prejudice, and discrimination.  Moved by the Spirit and relying on God’s grace, we vow to promote understanding, equality and love — in this congregation and in the world.

God is still speaking,

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